Tag: personal

So I’m really feeling like Neutrois fits me pretty well
I’m probably always going to present as female,
(my boobs are a bit large for passing as male unless I was to bind and I don’t really feel like I could do that), but I don’t really connect to being female like other women I know.
I just feel unconnected to gender. I suppose Agender could fit and I’m pretty sure I’m under the non-binary umbrella, but I don’t feel like they fit.
I don’t know anything for sure, this is just rattling round my head and distracting me so I thought I’d ramble

Ahhhhh clean at last

I feel so cleansed. I just blocked all the p0rn blogs that follow me.
My follower count has dropped from a Snorlax to a Vaporeon!

*(This is in no way me condemning p0rn (though I do have an issue with the propogation of the sexualisation and objectification of women in most p0rn), but I rarely post NSFW and how the hell does my blog even vaguely appeal to them???)*

arkhamarchitecture:

clipartpartyhat:

thealogian:

every time i get a new follower i look up what pokemon my follower count represents 

right now i’m at audino which like… man that’s a bad pokemon huh. a chansey but worse, except it gave great xp for a wild pokemon so it’s better than like… luvdisc

Jeeze. Kangashkahn. I’m not even out of the first generation

Dewgong, but do the porn blog followers really count?

JOLTEON! Aaaaah luv it!

fairypsychic:

dormouse11:

fairypsychic:

Ok so I rly fucking need to clean my house. Do any other People With Depression™ have any tips or ways you motivate urself to clean? Because this feels like the hardest goddamn thing in the world even tho I know it’s not and I’m just continually frustrated with myself and have been for the past two weeks.

HOO BOY DO I HAVE DEPRESSION/EXECUTIVE DYSFUNCTION CLEANING TIPS

in no particular order (because I have depression and executive dysfunction):

1. If something sensory about cleaning bothers you, eliminate that before you start. For example, I wear gloves to do the dishes. If the sound of the vacuum bothers you, wear headphones and turn up the music. etc.

2. If you can, make a list of everything that needs to be done. Then acknowledge that you probably can’t do it all, and circle all the things that absolutely, no matter what, have to be done. Pick one (ONE! ONLY ONE! START WITH ONE!) of those things and break it down into smaller steps. Then even smaller steps. Seriously, if step one is “stand up” and step two is “walk to closet” and step 3 is “get mop”, that’s fine. It can be that small.

3. Take a break. “But I literally only started five minutes ago!” Don’t care. If you want a break, take a break. “At this point I’ve spent more time on breaks than I’ve spent on cleaning.” Ok, but you’ve spent more than zero time on cleaning, so you’ve accomplished more than you had at the beginning. “If I take a break it won’t get done!” If you burn out it won’t get done either. Take a break.

4. If nothing is working, try what I call bin cleaning/box cleaning. Take a big trash bag and a box. Pick up the first object you see. Step 1: Is it trash? Put it in the trash bag. Step 2: Will you use it in the next 2 days? No? Put it in the box. It’s a problem for Future You. If you’ll use it in the next 2 days, take time to put it away. Rinse and repeat.

5. Did you get distracted and forget what you were doing? Don’t worry about it. Just clean a thing. It doesn’t matter if it’s the thing you were cleaning before. You have to clean lots of things, so just pick a thing and clean it. Eventually you’ll get around to the thing you forgot.

6. If you have to do a thing you really hate, do a thing you like afterwards. I hate doing dishes, but folding laundry soothes me, so that’s a nice one to do afterwards. YMMV. If there are no cleaning things you like that you can do afterwards, see number 3.

7. Make it fun. Play loud music and dance while you’re cleaning. Wear something that makes you feel cute, or if you prefer, something comfy. Light your favorite candle. Whatever.

8. If it’s nice out, open a window. Seriously, it helps.

This is seriously so helpful, thank you.