Welp

I’ve read all the female adaar/iron bull fics on AO3… (Well, 90% of them. I’m a bit picky about my f!adaars…)
Now what to do?
I am *this* close to getting back into fic writing and it will be all those big horny nerds’ fault.

runecestershire:

Lovely lad sad.

Well, considering the Richard II production I just watched, it isn’t not true.

Beautiful lovely funny

Sounds about right! 😉

Source: coral

You have now fucked the character on your desktop/mobile wallpaper.

dgcakes:

belowbedlam:

daji-ruhu:

kingofbeartraps:

risingoflights:

shake666productions:

How fucked are you?

my mobile wallpaper is Hojo, and my desktop is Aerith’s church. so i suppose i have just fucked hojo in aerith’s church

… 8D

I HAVE FUCKED GRIMOIRE VALENTINE IN SKYHOLD OMFG

I FUCKED RALEIGH SAMSON IN THE INQUISITION THRONE ROOM

AHAHAHAHAAH YAS

I fucked Kimani. *shudders* Honestly, that’s better than having bedded the cyborg granny (my last saver).

Still…*shudders*

I just fucked a fractal form B)

All of the dragon age origins companions AND Josie and f!Adaar… Well I have been busy!

toboitsune:

vetmedirl:

princess-xion:

simonbitdiddle:

gandalfkorv:

adistasteformath:

I honestly hate how art and media have kind of romanticized the idea of like “going off your meds and being your true self again” because like I started taking antidepressants and like immediately got a new job, found a place to live, improved my relationships with people in my life and completely reconciled with my sort of estranged ex-girlfriend?? Medication can be rad and while I realize that it’s not for everybody I don’t think anything should be trying to convince anyone that being on medication inherently makes you less of who you are

(Most) Medication is for helping you to be you again. The real me isn’t tired by just walking to the train station. The real me is not my anxiety or depression. They don’t define me.

The real me is who I am when I’m not anxious and feeling worthless 24/7.

Medication is supposed to be the chemical equivalent of glasses or a wheelchair, depending on the severity of impairment. It tries to help you compensate for what has been taken, been broken, or is missing.

In particular, i always hear the myth that anti-depressants give you “artificial happiness”… no, no, no. They give your brain the ability to be happy. You won’t always be happy, and sometimes you’ll be sad. But the happiness you’re able to feel when you’re on meds is your own, real, happiness.

SAY IT LOUDER FOR THE NEUROTYPICALS IN THE BACK!!!

^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^

MEDS GIVE YOUR BRAIN THE ABILITY TO BE HAPPY
Don’t fucking act like meds are some evil that crush your soul. I would be dead if I didn’t take these damn things so go fuck yourself.

Blaaaaarg (personal medical shit)

I feel like a twitchy mess.
Not sure if it’s cos of new meds or cos of old med withdrawal.
Ugh
Apparently, having constant all over pins and needles is called Parathesia and is a side effect of my new meds (dear maker let it be a temporary one) but I’ve felt it before when I’d missed a dose of the old meds. As today was the first day of only my new meds, full withdrawal makes sense, but my therapist (who was a nurse) says the withdrawal should be pretty much over (if this is pretty much over I got of very lightly when it was in full force!!!)
Either way, Parathesia comes with its own side effects, such as twitchy movement and ocular dysmetria, which is the fancy way of saying my brain freaks out when my eyes move too fast.
And it is the worst.

It’s like vertigo topped with tiredness and a dash of being drunk off your face.
(With none of the fun bits, like lack of inhibitions or having imbibed several floofy drinks before hand.)

It’s Done and No One is Dead

consultinwiththerain:

okay, inspired by a conversation I’ve had to have way too many times, may I remind you all of this

Classifying yourself as ace is not bad

Being ace is not a sign of being broken

Yes, you can still like romance without being sexually attracted to someone

There are various forms of asexuality, including demisexual and cupiosexual

Ace is not the same as straight

Being ace is not under “special snowflake uwu” stuff, it’s legit

Being ace and aro isn’t weird

Aromanticism does exist and it’s not something that makes you broken

“you’ll find someone eventually” is not good ally advice

A in LGBTQA+ is never, ever for “allies”

Thanks and goodbye

I am a sad!

I brought my laptop that i’d just installed dragon age 2 on, but the house has no internet!?!
So I can’t register the copy, even though I bought it from the Origin app??
Ruuuuude.

No interwebs??

I’m off for the weekend on holiday with my family. I’ve made sure there’s some stuff in my queue, but I’ll be even worse with asks etc. than usual as I don’t think I’ll have internets in the wilds of Wales!!

me, about to watch a movie: once again it is time to switch off my Feminist Sensibilities, so that I can enjoy this piece of entertainment rather than becoming Incensed and Outraged.